Mi-a atras atentia o intrare de pe site-ul Craig’s list, primita prin intermediul lui wpolitik. Autorul, blogger si editor la o revista online face o lista bazata pe experienta, lista ce cuprinde principalele mituri (si adevarurile aferente) despre femei.
Majoritatea miturilor, create de barbati sunt foarte inteligent tratate si cel mai probabil traite. Pana atunci voiam sa aduc in atentie cateva fraze care mi-au placut si pe care voiam sa le completez.
La mitul conform caruia femeile ar dori numai dragoste si afectiune, Craig raspunde ”Young women want whatever other young women want. They’re herd creatures.” De acord : Studii sociologice recente au demonstrat ca femeile dezvolta structuri de grup mult mai organizate si mai cuprinzatoare decat barbatii. As dori sa rectific totusi : Most women are heard creatures…some of them have lost the heard => Easy prey for smart lions !
”Women tend to consider themselves amateur psychiatrists and like „fixing” men Women want to maintain the self-delusion that they already understand men. They claim to understand men and that men are simple creatures” – Nu-i asa ca voi stiti exact ce vrem si ce ne lipseste 😀 ? Mai ales : Nu-i asa ca voi stiti de ce noi suntem rai, si voi bune ?
”MYTH : Women are fairer and more even-handed than men
TRUTH: Nothing could be further from the truth. Traditionally men have favoured the same rules for everyone: „He who lives by the sword dies by the sword.” Women on the other hand make up the rules as they go along.” – Da , ”regulile jocului” despre care vorbea o fosta.
Una si mai buna : ”Women never stop complaining. For them, it’s a sport. Some complain more than others, but none of them will ever stop, any more than one day men will stop discussing football. Men have built civilizations, created law, invented husbandry (that’s keeping domestic animals by the way, not marriage; women invented marriage), built skyscrapers, invented cars, washing machines, antibiotics, toilets, computers, and microwave ovens, and generally dragged us out of caves and into condos. Don’t kid yourself: men did it all. If it were up to women we’d still be living in caves and dying at 20. I know that men did it all because I know why they did it: they hoped that it would stop women complaining. It didn’t.”
One of the biggest problems men like me have is that when we say, „I love you” to a woman we want to really mean it. Like „I love you forever.” Men don’t understand that a woman can say, „I love you forever” and change her mind next week. – Povestea vietii mele…doar ca eu nu cred in iubire, dar inteleg conceptul de LOIALITATE !
Despre faptul ca femeile isi paseaza problemele personale in sfera ”cuplului”, in sfera ”noastra” : When a woman needs to talk to her beau about something, she says, „We need to talk.” Notice the difference? Suddenly what she needs becomes what we need.
Pe final si una de bine….despre ideea ca un partener nu-ti poate da sens vietii :
The only way to have a happy life is to develop one for yourself, then leave an opening for someone else to come and share it with you.
P.S : Scuze fetelor…nu sunt misogin, dar voiam sa dau si eu o replica 😉 – NU, NU sunteti toate la fel, nici proaste, nici guralive (nu mi-as permite..stiind cat vorbesc de felul meu) si nici lipsite de ratiune in alegeri…dar faceti cam la fel de multe tampenii , deci , suntem pe pace ?
P.S 2 : Cititi si voi lista, nu va strica si nici nu va va jigni ! (prea mult)